I'm sure I'll be saying this every month but how is he one month old already? It seems that it was only yesterday that he was born, I still remember our first night in the hospital together. I think I was still high on adrenaline because I barely slept, not just because the little man was awake every hour, but also because I could hardly believe he was here. A little boy! How lucky are we?! Here is Oliver's first update:
Weight- I honestly don't know how much he weighs exactly but I suspect it to be almost 10lbs! He was 8lbs6 at birth and although he took a few days to put his birth weight back on, he did, and then some! He's beginning to get little arm and leg rolls that I just love! I adore chunky babies! He's currently still wearing his newborn baby grows but I think he'll soon be out of those. We have our 6 week check up soon and I'm looking forward to having him weighed.
What he looks like- Oliver is definitely going to be fair, just like his big sister. His hair is still slightly dark in places but his eyebrows and eyelashes are light. As for his eyes, I'm not sure what colour they will end up being. Ava has beautiful blue eyes, whereas mine are dark brown and Nathan's are green/grey so I really don't know about Oliver. As for who he looks like, at the moment there is no doubting that Oliver & Ava are related! Their baby pictures are near on identical, it's crazy. Oliver also looks alot like Nathan, especially when he was a baby and he also bares resemblances to both of my brothers.
Feeding- Oliver is formula fed and has Aptimil formula in Dr Brown's bottles. He has been feeding every 2 hours, usually around 4oz but I think he is having a growth spurt as he has just had almost 5oz. We feed him on demand so it can be tricky to track when he is feeding, which to be honest I think I need to start noting down so that we can track it.
Sleeping-As he's feeding roughly every 2 hours sleep isn't great. The longest stretch he has done is 5 hours, 9pm to 2.30am which was amazing although I have no doubt that it was a fluke and that it won't happen again for a long time!
Personality- His little personality is beginning to come through, he's starting to try and smile which is really lovely. I can't wait until he starts to beam at us. He is such an alert baby and is starting to enjoy spending time on his play mat looking at his toys and kicking his legs. We start baby sensory class in a couple of weeks which I'm really looking forward to.
How I've been feeling- In a word, tired! Nath and I have a pretty good routine going between us, I head up to bed first to get a few hours sleep whilst Nath stays downstairs with Ollie sleeping in his pram top in the front room, he'll then bring him up when he wakes so I can carry on with the rest of the night's feeds. This does mean that Nath and I don't get to spend much time together in the evenings but I do feel slightly more human for it! You may have seen this post where I talk about my feelings with a newborn, I'm happy to say that my baby blues have vanished and I'm feeling so much more positive and happy.
This week Nath and I have started eating healthily and I'm actually looking forward to doing some exercise after my 6 week postpartum check. I'm thinking about doing a diary to keep you updated on how I get on.
What we've been up to- Ollie has been busy in his first few weeks in the world, he's been on a couple of shopping trip, a few lunches and many coffee dates! As Nath works on the post he is out of the house before we get up in the morning so that leaves me to fly solo in the morning, getting Ava up and ready for school on my own. It's pretty stressful but Ava's a little gem and helps me so much and doing this has given me a lot more confidence about getting out and being on my own with the children. We have the Easter holidays coming up next week and I'm already planning trips out with both of them, I must be mad!